Ever notice how our brains hop over anything positive? Like why do we hop right over the compliment? Like someone tells you look great but hey there is a scuff on your shoe. Suddenly your entire life falls apart and you start obsessing about how everyone saw the scuff and how stupid you looked and now you never want to leave the house again! Or someone tells you how cute you look and proceeds to tell you about an outfit similar and your brain doesn’t even register the compliment.